Domestic Violence Awareness Month

This graphic is a promotional banner for Domestic Violence Awareness Month, with the message "Violence is Not Traditional" displayed prominently. The background is a gradient of deep purple, with a subtle silhouette of a person wrapped in traditional clothing on the right side. The figure is holding what appears to be a broom or bundle of twigs, possibly for ceremonial purposes, against a natural landscape. At the top of the image, in smaller, italicized white text, are the words "Domestic Violence Awareness Month" with decorative arrows pointing toward the center. Below, the phrase "Violence is Not Traditional" is displayed in bold, uppercase letters. "Violence" is a lighter purple, while "Is Not Traditional" is in white. At the bottom, the logo of the National Indigenous Women's Resource Center (NIWRC) is positioned to the left, featuring stylized depictions of Indigenous women and the organization's full name beneath.

Each October, the National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center (NIWRC) proudly joins advocates and organizations nationwide to launch Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a time to honor those we have lost to domestic violence, uplift the resilience of survivors, and strengthen our collective commitment to ending gender-based violence. Native women—including American Indian, Alaska Native, and Native Hawaiian women—face some of the highest rates of domestic violence in the United States, often lacking access to essential services for safety, justice, and healing. This reality underscores the urgent need to address this crisis within Indian country.


Embracing the theme "Heal, Hold & Center," first introduced by the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV), NIWRC stands in solidarity with survivors and is dedicated to fostering healing within Tribal communities. This theme encourages us to heal by reclaiming cultural practices, hold space by actively listening to survivors, and center the voices of marginalized communities. NIWRC believes that by honoring the sacredness of all individuals, including women, children, and LGBTQ2S+ relatives, we can support survivors on their journey toward recovery. Together, let us speak the truth that violence is not traditional.

Domestic violence encompasses various forms of abuse, including physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, financial, cultural, spiritual, and digital abuse directed at a relative. Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is a specific type of domestic violence that occurs when a current or former spouse or intimate partner engages in a repetitive, fear-inducing pattern of abuse to maintain power and control in the relationship. This pattern of abuse can manifest in various types of relationships, whether couples are dating, married, living together, sharing a child, or have ended their relationship. The vast majority of IPV victims are women, with men being the primary offenders. In Indigenous societies, violence is not traditional. Instead, colonization has imposed and perpetuated the domination and ownership of Native women by men, a reality reflected in the violence against Native women that has persisted throughout history since contact, laying the groundwork for present-day violence. 

As we prepare for Domestic Violence Awareness Month, domestic violence programs and communities are organizing intentional and motivational events to inspire change and uplift women and other survivors. Join us for an NIWRC webinar focusing on grassroots advocacy and showcasing the voices and expertise of Native women and survivors. You’ll discover valuable planning strategies, ideas, and resources to help your programs and communities create impactful DVAM events and campaigns. Watch the webinar!

Tuesday, October 1, 2024

  • First Day of Domestic Violence Awareness Month
  • Tillie Black Bear Women Are Sacred Day and 10-Year Memorial Event
    10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. CT | Rapid City, South Dakota
    Hosted by NIWRC, the White Buffalo Calf Women's Society, the South Dakota Coalition Ending Domestic & Sexual Violence, and the Native Women's Society of the Great Plains, this gathering will honor the legacy of Matilda “Tillie” Black Bear, a champion for the rights and safety of Native women. The event will be held at the Best Western Ramkota, Rapid City, South Dakota. RSVP now!

Tuesday, October 15, 2024

  • Tillie Black Bear: A Legacy of Resistance That Lives On" Documentary Screening
    2:00 p.m. MT
    Please join NIWRC for a live screening of our new documentary, Wa Wokiye Win (Woman Who Helps Everyone), which highlights and celebrates the work of Tillie Black Bear, known as the Grandmother of the Anti-Domestic Violence Movement. This documentary was created in collaboration with Tillie's daughter, Connie Black Bear Brushbreaker, and directed by Jax Agtuca. This webinar will be live-streamed on NIWRC's Youtube channel. Register Now!

Thursday, October 17, 2024

  • Purple Thursday
    Wearing purple honors three key themes of Domestic Violence Awareness Month: commemorating those we've lost, celebrating survivors' resilience, and fostering connections to combat gender-based violence. Join us in solidarity with survivors by wearing purple (shirts, sweaters, dresses, scarves, etc.) on Purple Thursday! Tag @niwrc and use the hashtag #PurpleThursday for a chance to be featured on our page. 

Saturday, October 19, 2024

  • #IWillRunForThem 5k
    7:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. MT | Albuquerque, New Mexico
    Join the Coalition to Stop Violence Against Native Women (CSVANW) for the annual I Will Run for Them 5K Run awareness run to honor the resilience, strength and spirit of Native relatives impacted by domestic violence. Learn more!

Purchase

Download

Inform

Read

Watch, Listen

Help amplify the message of #DVAM2024 across social media! Let’s raise awareness, honor survivors, and promote healing throughout October. Here’s how you can get involved:

  • Social Media Toolkit: Use our suggested language to access and download Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter/X graphics.

  • Zoom Background: Show your support in meetings and webinars by using our themed background.

  • Hashtags: Use #DVAM2024, #HealHoldCenter, and #WomenAreSacred to show your support and spread awareness.

  • Connect with Us: Follow @niwrc on social media and tag us in your posts to join the conversation!

"Silhouette of a person in traditional Indigenous attire with flowing fringes, standing against a dark purple sunset. The text reads 'October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month' with arrows pointing to the message. Below, it directs viewers to 'Learn more at niwrc.org.' The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center logo appears at the bottom.""Silhouette of a woman looking down against a sunset backdrop, surrounded by a circular message that reads 'Violence is not traditional. Women are sacred. Domestic Violence Awareness Month 2024.' The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center logo appears at the top, and the hashtag #DVAM2024 is featured." "Silhouette of a person in traditional Indigenous attire with flowing fringes, standing against a dark purple sunset. The text reads 'October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month' with arrows pointing to the message. Below, it directs viewers to 'Learn more at niwrc.org.' The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center logo appears at the bottom."


View NIWRC's 2024 DVAM Social Media Toolkit!

 

  • StrongHearts Native Helpline: Call 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483) for a confidential and anonymous helpline available 24/7. Designed for Native Americans and Alaska Natives, StrongHearts Native Helpline provides safe support and advocacy for domestic, dating, and sexual violence. To connect with a live advocate, visit strongheartshelpline.org and click the “Chat Now” icon.
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: Reach out at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.
  • National Dating Abuse Helpline: Call 1-866-331-9474 or TTY 1-866-331-8453. You can also text “Loveis” to 22522 or visit loveisrespect.org for live chat support.